{"id":11633,"date":"2022-03-04T17:40:16","date_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:40:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/?p=11633"},"modified":"2022-03-04T17:42:44","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:42:44","slug":"su-co-don-thuc-su-la-gi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/su-co-don-thuc-su-la-gi\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 g\u00ec?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n (lonely) v\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh (alone). T\u1ee9c l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n.<\/div>\n
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S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c \u1edf c\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/div>\n
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T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u1ec9?<\/div>\n
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Trong ti\u1ebfng Anh, t\u1eeb ‘Alone’ \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gh\u00e9p t\u1eeb 2 t\u1eeb l\u00e0 ‘all + one’, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 khi ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n th\u1ec3 duy nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng chia r\u1ebd. Ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ta kh\u00f4ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 ta c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an.<\/div>\n
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V\u1eady n\u00ean khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec khi ta \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec ta v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 an vui.<\/div>\n
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Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi ta ph\u1ea3i chia r\u1ebd ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n. N\u1ebfu tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ph\u1ea3i c\u00e3i nhau th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 ta \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh hay trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng th\u00ec v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00f4i. M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 che gi\u1ea5u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Hay l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111ang c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong c\u00e1i v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/div>\n
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\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i d\u1ec5 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi \u1edf trong thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean ho\u1eb7c \u1edf c\u1ea1nh ch\u00f3 m\u00e8o. V\u00ec thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean hay ch\u00f3 m\u00e8o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa m\u00e8o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa m\u00e8o th\u00ec ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ta.<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n (lonely) v\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh (alone). T\u1ee9c l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. \u00a0 S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11635,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219,18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ceos-blog","category-tin-tuc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11633","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11633"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11633\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/trao.com.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}